An open letter to the haters of my boyfriend, who doesn’t exist now but he will: If he is not your type, glad to know because I want him to be mine alone.
Seriously, I have been single since 2010.
You haven’t seen me with someone, so I understand if he will become the most interesting topic in your life when the time comes.
But that is honestly scary to me. It pressures me to find the most good-looking Adonis boyfriend who owns a mansion with a huge parking space for his Lamborghini because that is what you want.
But then, I don’t want what you want. I want someone who can give me cute babies and be a good father to them and a husband to me — that is the only thing I want.
Because that’s the only thing I can’t give to myself.
If he seems too bad for me, I think you need to get to know me deeper because I am not perfect. I have done bad things, maybe worse than you think.
If he seems too poor for me, if my goal were to marry a rich guy, it is not difficult to find a sugar daddy these days or to earn money from a naked picture. It is 2024!
If he seems too ugly for me, look in the mirror. Do you think you are pretty or handsome? If someone rejects you because of your looks, what would you feel?
If he seems too uneducated for me, I would like to know how you were able to measure his intelligence. His educational attainment?
If I want someone so smart and looks like it, I should’ve agreed when my mom told me she would introduce me to one of the teachers in her department. Nope!
You may be worried about me because he doesn’t seem good enough for me, but I have had my fair share of love problems, and I learned from them.
I have been single almost my entire life, but it doesn’t mean I haven’t liked anyone. I had my heart broken, I was brokenhearted, someone broke my heart.
I know those are all the same.
The point is, love hurt me several times, so I am cautious. The person I will choose, I will choose for reasons more meaningful than your criteria: degree, money, looks.
An open letter to the haters of my boyfriend, you can’t change my mind about him.
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