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We get lost because we follow the voices outside ourselves.
Disclaimer: I am not a psychologist or mental health professional. I’m just a reasonable human being who loves observing the world.
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How to Cope With Stress and Find Balance in Life
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An Open Letter to the Haters of My Boyfriend: Leave Me Be
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How to Be Successful: 5 Lessons From My Successful Mom
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The Importance of Self-Care and Mental Well-Being
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How to Be Vulnerable and Build Real Connections With Everyone
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How to Be Alone Without Worrying About What Others Think
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How to Heal Trust Issues or Manage Them If You Can’t Heal
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Empathy or Projection: What Is the Difference?
January 15, 2024
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Can Extroverts and Introverts Be Friends? How It Works
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How to Deal With Extroverts as an Introvert
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3 Dangers of Being Single for So Long Based on Experience
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How to Deal With the Past So It Doesn’t Ruin Your Life
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How to Know When You Are in Love
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5 Toxic Traits of Introverts Caused by Their Introversion
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5 Secrets of Judgmental People That Explain Why They Judge
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4 Quotes About Love That Don’t Make Sense
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5 Struggles of Introverts and Quiet People in Society
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5 Digital Detox Benefits to Overall Health and Well-Being
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5 Reasons Why People Push People Away
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How to Be Content With Life and Decrease Your Stress
July 15, 2023
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How to Overcome Shyness Without Being an Extrovert
June 30, 2023
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How to Succeed in Entrepreneurship Despite the Setbacks
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5 Lessons I Learned From Job Hunting
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5 Lessons From First Job After Graduating College
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5 Life-Changing Moments in College That Made Me Grow
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5 Embarrassing Moments in High School Because I’m Not Perfect
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3 Ugly Sides of Beauty Pageants and Why I Never Joined
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4 Lessons From Visiting a Foreign Country for the First Time
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Why Self-Love Is Important and How You Can Love Yourself
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5 Struggles of Freelancers Because Freelancing Is Hard
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5 Lessons From Getting Fired From Work Effective Immediately
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What It Feels Like to Be Single for 10 Years and Counting
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How to Be More Consistent and Achieve Your Goals in Life
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5 Benefits of Taking a Break From Work or Personal Projects
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Do Liars Change? How to Deal With Liars If You Want Change
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How to Be Financially Comfortable: How You Spend Matters
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5 Reasons Why It Is Okay to Be Lazy Based on Psychology
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How Looks Affect Confidence and How to Be More Confident
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Why People Ghost: 5 Reasons Why They Suddenly Disappear
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5 Benefits of Being Single From a Perpetually Single Woman
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Why People Change and Why You Should Believe It Happens
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